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My name is Becca. I wish that I could live in a eutopic world where nothing ever went wrong and smiles could brighten up everyone's day. But life isn't always rainbows and sunshine. All good comes with bad. What makes or breaks a person is their strength through those tough times. I am a simple person with simple ambitions, simple pleasures, and a simple life.

I usually try to find the best in people, ergo, I can be a very forgiving person. Show me respect and treat me nicely, and I can be one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. I am worth $2,886,158 on humanforsale. I change my mind more than I change my underwear, so don't set what I say in stone. I am the biggest procrastinator in the world. I have horrible spelling and typing skills. The person who has changed my life the most would have to be my two year old cousin, Chelsea. She is the most amazing person ever, and I've been blessed to be a part of her life since March 23, 2005. I want to be a positive influence in her life, and guide her to grow up and make a difference in the world. This little girl means the world to me. She is my best friend.

I love to feel loved. Ian makes me feel loved. He is one amazing person. We have been dating since June 28, 2006, and we will stay together for the rest of our lives. We were made for eachother. He calls me his Bibbles and his lady bug and makes me smile my biggest smiles ever. He tickles me until I almost cry. I love every second I am with him.

I am done things in my life that I regret. I wish I was a better person. I am currently trying to find myself and what I want from life. I am currently trying to become who I want to be. Let's just see where that takes me.
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I afraid of my boyfriends friends and he asked me if i wanted to go to a drive through with them and him. which makes me the only girl. and i said no thanks and he told me that we could make out the whole time. i trusted him. so i went and he went to get food and his friends started rapeing me and they told me if i screamed they would sufficate me so i didnt and i regret not screaming but i was so scared. my boyfriend was gone for like a half an hour which i thought was odd. and then they saw him coming so they got off me. i started crying and they made up an excuse why i was crying and he told them lets just go home. so the next day i told him and i couldnt stop crying he told me they didnt rape me and i was exagerating they were probaly just ticking me or osmething. i was going to tell my mom or someone but now im sure as hell nhot going to because if he doesnt believe me they wont either. im really scared and depressed and i cant stop crying what should i do? thanks.

sweetie, i know what you're going through and i'm sorry that you're going through all of this. i was sexually assulted by a guy who i thought was my friend and was the boyfriend of my boyfriend's co-worker/friend.

the best thing to do in this situation is to tell your mother so she can call the police to investigate and dump your boyfriend's ass. you need people supporting you through this and not people that do no believe you.

you should tell your parents so that they can tell the authorities so that they can either get in trouble or know that what they did was wrong. just imagion what would happen if you don't tell someone? they would think that they can get away with it and will put some other innocent girl through what you're going through. let them be punished.

sweetie, if you need a friend through all of this, don't hesitate to IM me at xAskkMechaBeccax on AIM or message me on myspace at www.myspace.com/mecha_becca_tm. you are a brave girl for even telling us this much. hope i helped.

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