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Q: Hey. Well, I'm 13/female. I always fight with my mom. Sometimes, we just get in little fights, but sometimes huge ones.

She always seems to be in a stressed out, angry,bad mood, and she is always snapping at me and making a big deal out of nothing.

It never fails, that every single night we argue. And to me, it always seems like it's her.
It IS her. I wouldn't have an issue if she would just leave me alone, and let me actually have a life.

I'M 13 YEARS OLD, AND SHE STILL FIGHTS WITH ME ABOUT GOING PLACES WITHOUT ADULTS.
She doesn't let me go TO THE CENTER OF TOWN WITH MY FRIENDS, becuase i'm 'too young'. We don't live in a bad area. It's a quiet place, and nothing ever happens here. I've never even gotten into trouble where she can't trust me anymore.

I want to live with my dad, and go to school in his town. He let's me have a life, without doubting me for a second.
I'm not a bad kid, I've never done anything wrong. Well, atleast not like majorly wrong like drugs or fighting or anything. I've told my mom i wanna live with my dad. She doesn't listen, and neither does he.

What can I do?! I can't even deal with this anymore.

I'm home alone for the ENTIRE SUMMER, and she won't let ANYONE come over for even like an hour while she's not here.

IM NOT A BAD KID, SHE HAS NO REASON FOR THIS DISTRUST.
She thinks just becuase I dress semi -"emo" in her oppinion, that i'm some horrible child that can't be trusted. This is SO GAY, what do i do!?
i think u need to cry. pathetic as it seems, MAYBE she'll actually get the point that you feel dont have a life because of her strictness. if things go bad, threaten her you'll run away.

Well, if i EVER ran away, she would literally lock me up. She's like, insane. And I've tried crying, but, it doesn't seem to work.

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