Okay... first of all, let me be straight up with you and tell you this... if you can't spell Orgasm... then you dont need to be worried about getting one. And at your age, if you haven't had a period at all or for very long...then its somethin that may take a while for you to experience. You are only 14 years old! This is something that I promise you won't be the highlight of your life so I think that you should be switching your priorities somewhere else. Using food for one isn't healthy or sanitary and if something breaks off up in there, then you're screwed... try explaining that to your parents or the doctors (I've seen friends plenty of time in the hospital because of stuff like that). All you are going to get is a tingling feeling because you are not that mature yet in age or with the growth of your body (i'm sure of this), so give it a couple of more years. It does bother me when young girl talk about this and worry about it because I've been there and it's just something that you shouldn't be worried about so much right now. Because it's going to lead you to be sexually active and doing whatever you can to achieve it and then when you do, you're not gonna wanna stop and im sure you're a smart girl, so you know what can happened from there. I'm not your mother and I'm not here to tell you what to do. You can simply read my advice and take it... but you shouldn't be focused on this issue though sweetie. I'm 21 years old and I know what it's like but trust me!... you would be better off with your mind of school and friends and growing up to be something and somebody that you can be proud of.

Bottom Line: Let your body mature up and let your mind mature and grow up and let nature take it's course. Good luck and let me know if you need anything else and how it goes! :)

haha thanks you give really good advice and i'm for sure taking it. and just to let you know lol. i started my period when i was 11. i matured kind of quickly. but i'm deff taking your advice. thanks

I have always been the person that people have come to for advice or just some help with something. I'm not saying that I have all the answers because that's far from it. But I have been through so much hurt, pain, and bad times in my life as well as joyous ones to know how everyone feels. I am very understanding because I've been there and I know what it's like; I know what it feels like to be so much in love that you're on top of the world and nobody can touch you... and I know what it's like to hate everybody including yourself and every fiber of your being... I don't judge because that's not my place but you better believe that I tell it like it is! I love meeting new people and helping out however I can...its what I love to do. So, if you have any questions about love, pain, or why your dog won't listen (haha)... anything.. you just be sure to let me know and I'll help you and talk one on one with you the best I can. God Bless, take care, and just know... you can't just grow flowers with sun alone.... its gotta rain sometimes :)

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