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ok so im sick of my hair color. like i have a really ugly color blonde. its like a really dirty blonde. and it looks like i bleach it but its all natural. and its just disgusting. I HATE IT! and im always getting teased liek ohh your so blonde. but really i dont care about that. thats not the thing that bothers me. but like i really want to dye it. but my mom keeps saying my hair is gorgeous nad all this stuff. but like ireally dont like it. its disgusting. how can i make my mom let my dye it. and im also sick of people saying ohh your too young to dye your hair. but i dont care! so many people have died their hair already and then when i say that oh you only want to do it because everyone else is...its not true! i want it done. but how cna i let my mom understand. i hate my hair. my dad says its fine. but my moms like aadshfjkasd! urrg. i have tried sitting down with her but hten it jsut gets in a fight. help! (link)
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Have you ever proposed to her that, in the same way she uses makeup and clothing to change between work and home, you would like something to change with your hair? Ask her to go with you to the store to pick out a temporary color that will wash out in a few weeks. There are a lot of them. You can choose together if there's a strawberry blonde, a light brown, or possibly raven black color that you'd like to try. There's also the possibility of not changing the base color but adding highlights. Tell her you'd just like to play with your appearance a little and it doesn't need to be drastic or permanent.
Be forewarned, however, that people will tease you no matter what color your hair is. If they teased you before about being blonde, they will tease you later about still being blonde underneath or about being "fake." If people want to tease you, they will find something - no matter what.
Good luck.
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thanks =] and hte teasing wont bother mer=] thank you for the advice
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