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I'm a woman in Texas. I'm married and have a school-aged child. I have a medical background. I'm quite liberal, socially. I love helping people with medical, parenting, and social questions. Don't ask me about tech stuff or finances, because I need advice on those things myself!
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 34
Member Since: December 17, 2006
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Last Update: September 2, 2007
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Thank you so much for your response, it is so kind of you to share so much and go into so much detail. I have emailed him and he emailed me right back, we'll probably meet sometime soon, I think we really like each other. Sometimes it's good to take a chance! Thanks again!

Sorry but this is not the kinda advice I needed!! thx anyway. lxx

Thank you so much. Despite what you say, your advice did offer another angle, and that gives me food for thought. Thanks again!

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wow thanks

Thank you! They are getting seperated because I was moving out and was going to take my cat but long story short they didnt want to sperate them so I'm going to go to the humane society, where a cat needs a home, and that way everyones happy =) . Thank you again for the advice!

thank you, the pill is suppose to give you side affects. I heard they could last up to 5 days which doesn't seem weird at all because one plan b pill is equal to at most 8 birthcontrol pills. Lately ive had some stomach cramping and thats it. Thank you for the advice it makes me feel way better

thank you, i appreciate that.

thank you

thankya.

thanks!

thanks a lot can you add additional info on what nutritional status i will need for it to start and body type please.

thaks and srry about you haveing to go through your medical issues right now. i dont know why, but i always freak out when it comes to my health. like yesterday i cut my finger and i thought i was gunna blead to death so i started freaking out. i really hope you feel better, and you give great advice and i just love how even though out of everything you are going through with all the problems you have, you still devote your freetime to help others like me who dont really had a problem to begin with! =] thanks again.

thanks, ill try that.

thank you, that helps a lot

thanks a lot i know there isnt much to say but just someone like you to actually write in and tell me you were through it means a lot to me thank you so much im adding you as one of my favourite i hope i can turn to you for more advice xxx

thanks

Thankyou. I tried googleing it and I couldn't find it. Sorry. But thankyou so much. :D

thank you!

haha I like your definition of lol. thanks.

thanks =] and hte teasing wont bother mer=] thank you for the advice

wow... thankyou. i cant believe how messed up our world is. i see why Bush wanted the war, but now its really messed up, and it probably will be still bad when troops leave. what a waste of money... and lives. and i cannot believe the government may have already known that 9/11 would happen. that is soo horrible! i know lots of people who had relatives that died in those towers! i mean ive never liked bush.. even when he was first elected i wanted Al Gore, and i have never liked Bush since.. now i dislike him even more! geez i hope things get back to normal soon. thanks again for writing this long answer! i really appreciate it

Thanks, this helped =D

Hey Sabine. Thanks a lot for the detailed info. I found out that I have strep throat but I'm feeling much better now. I used listerine mouth wash to speed up the process of killing the bacteria. My throat's recovering. You're a nice lady =)

how would you do Mrs. Darling?

thanks :)

thanks. they haven't said anything yet so I figure they didn't care or notice ;) :))

Thanks for your advice :D.. I agree that I'm a healthy weight, but the thing is right now a good part of it is fat, and it's accumulating at all the wrong spots >.<... Some of it is from my body developing, so I'm kinda aiming for around 150 ish.... or even if I don't lose the weight, at least transform some of that fat to muscle. P.S. Yes, I am rather tall XD... Thanks again.

thanks!

wow you give amazing advice! thanks!

Thank you so much. :]

thanks :]]

Thanks =]

thanks so much =] it was the first time i smoked not a lot, and before i knew i was possibly pregnant

thanks, my father is dead so it would just be my mom i'd have to tell, and most likely our close family friend who is pretty much like my father. the childs father and i are not together anymore but we talked about getting back together and that is pretty much the plan.

i agree. i just dont kno what 2 believe

she dsnt lie she's very honest with him and stuff but i mean i guess this is a matter of life and death... we're not sure how he'll react... and she most dfntly haaaas to bleed.... so thanks for the idea!! this cud probably work i hope :S how much blood usually results... lol i lost mine ages ago and i didn't even notice the amount of blood... and another question how can she hide the needle and stuff.... i'd appreciate the creativity coz i cant think! :S thanx so far though!

i love your advice.. but i cant call child services Im making sure there not going hungry and Kile's now living with us. And My bf wont live here too becuase he needs to make sure his moms okay.. i like all the advice and thank you but calling isnt an option im willng to take I like him to much to see him be taken away so his mom will be ALL ALONE and even more depressed and would completly blame myself Thank You Though

Thank you so much your really smart =] by the way im 13 if that helps

great advice the best advice i got so far highly reccommend

Hi there, I know you said not to rate this, but it is the only way to do this. If you ammend your answer, I will change your rating. The purpose of this question was to hopefully get a couple hundred answers, from which to determine foods which are agreed on by the majority. If I could find 10 foods which better than 70% like, then everyone would have plenty to eat. As for your technical questions: The venue isn't set. This is quite some time away yet. We will have full facilities to cook on site, plenty of outlets, and the ability to make fresh to order foods such as pastas. Real plates, in theory. Yes there will be refrigeration. Yes we have room for all the sauces and such you mention. The people will be doing something else. They will be socializing. How many people? Could be 200, could be 2,000. It really depends on the response from the group. Yes, mixed ages. We may have a cover charge for the food/salad bar/ buffet, and if so we would want to keep it reasonable, say $10-15. Thank you for you help, and I WILL check back to see what you have written.

ummm yas thanx. but im not a mom :)

aw thanks, and you said look at the link, but you didn't leave one?

wow, long answer, i didnt understand a lot of it i just asked one simple question but ok ill still give you a 5

thanks!

thank you, sabine

thanks ^_^

i appreciate your responds,some things you say i agree with but not everything. in responds to infatuation; thats a feeling that tells you different when your heart longs for them. love is selfless yes but it comes with much more understanding, respect,and thoughts of that person rather than yourself, so infatuation never fleets it does grow into compassion and love.

thanks :) that was good. i think i`ll take it. but i`m scared that he would cheat, because he has alot of girls that are friends. i think i`m going to tell him how i feel, and see what happens. but if he is wanting a relationship then im going to have to wait so i can keep track of him myself. :) thanks sweetie

thank you for defending me, and i realize i'm a little young. he was sixteen soo yeah . but he was a loser, and im glad its over

thxx

Thank you very much... and I hope it works too!! =X

thanks

how do yu know i was only 15 lol

Thanks so much!!!!!

Thanks for all your help! It was really useful and i really feel like you understood the situation so much more than anyone else! Thanks again biker-chic x

thank you so much. you really understood what I tried to say. <3

thanks and her dad was in jail her whole life and she doesnt even know why she saw him once but before all the drugs she had.

I sit in the front row of her classroom, and she sits there and says nothing. The teachers don't care about kids like me. I'm not going to another school, because there's only one other school, its private and ultra expensive.

thanks, he knew me before he new her.

Thanks so much:)

I AM your darling husband, so technically, this is pretty useless advice. :) But I'm rating it high because I love you.

thanks a ton! that really really helped!

thanks, it turns out he was just saying that to try to change my mind to make me come. he is a big jerk when he is drunk, he thinks he is being funny but he isn't Rating changed by L2 moderator - hailebop

thanks. and yes that's what it is i wasn't sure how to pronounce it. i only hve to take it for a week for my allergies everyone's just telling me to calm down but idk i'm just really nervous about being moody.

thank you so much you are the only person to give me help.

Thanks! <3 It is crucial because this is a year long project, and you sign up for the days. I just didn't know I'd get sick beforehand.

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thanks

Thank you sooo much. I really appreciate it.

thank you!

thank you : )

thanks. it's just so hard to choose because my heart's telling me to go to B but my mind says A.

Thanks so much! I'll try it all! -Spoolie21

thanks. i totally get it.

great advice thankss:D

how do you do that?

thanks so much! exactly what I was hoping to hear! =]

im trying to forgive her. i just hate frickin shrinks lol thanks for the help

Thanks.. i will really try it

thanks so much for replying to my question

thanks

Thanx for the advice! I hope you have an awesome time on your 10th.

thanks :]

Thanks

thank you!!

thankss

wow, thanks so much!

Good answer. Very honest, which I liked. But try looking at it from the point of view of someone who doesn't believe monogamy... That is why him having a girlfriend doesn't bother me... My main concern is if he is just after sex, I want to know if his feelings are sincere in that aspect...

i would have given you a four if you hadn't have said the last sentence - & thanks. i tried googling

:)

thanks that really helped

ya i'll definitley try that!! thanks!

thnk you!

thank you so much! this was the most helpful information. yeah its not like falling out from the root its just like pieces of it. thanks again =)

thank you so much. this helped a lot.

but we not "screwin". anywayz idk

thank you very much

ohhh thanks

thank you!

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