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Ok, well theres this boy that I liked a lot and he usually hooks up [makes out] with a lot of girls, and then leaves them but we hooked up for the first time in a movie theater, and he still wanted to see me again and everyone said that he must really like me if he still wants to hang out with me. So I hung out with him again and we hooked up again, but now the whole time we held hands and everything seemed good. But then I found out he thinks my best friends hott, and he wants to "get to know her." I confronted him and he told me that everything would be okay, and that he just thinks shes attractive but now 2 days later hes being really weird and says he doesnt know if he wants to talk to me anymore, and I dont know what I did because the other day he was saying everything would be ok. I ve been really upset and even though of killing myself, until my friends ex imed me and was being really nice to me and asked me out. What do I do about both of them? And why is he all of a sudden being really weird? (link)
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ive been in a similar situation as you, and let me just tell you; guys like this arent worth it. if he hooks up with a lot of girls & then leaves them, it sounds like hes going to continue to take this path, and hes already tried to do this with you. its all he wants out of the girl, obviously. DONT TAKE IT PERSONALLY. you dont need this guy, and never ever think of killing yourself over a person, especially one guy. its so not worth it, it might seem like its everything to you now, but believe me you will be with SO many other guys in your life. and this guy doesnt seem like a good reason at ALL to kill yourself over either. please promise me you wont think about suicide over him again. you also say you dont know what you did wrong. well, you didnt do anything wrong. the guy is playing you, it seems. if two days went by, and hes already bored, then hes most likely got all hes wanted out of you. =[ sorry hun. ive been in your position, and yes it hurts, like hell, and in my situation i also didnt realize i was being used until after the fact. this guy's only in it for the hookup it seems; and apparently you really like him and want more than to be just one of his hookup girls. but seriously, save yourself now. get out and find a more mature guy who is more into having a comitted hookup/relationship if thats what you're looking for. your friend's ex could be fun to hang out with, and you might end up being better off with a guy like him. i wish you best of luck!
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omg, thank you so much you give literally the best advice. if i ever need advice your seriously who im comming to thanks soo muchh!
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