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14/f

I'm more upset than I usually am right now because a guy friend of mine just told me that this other girl said i was fat and was making fun of me. I used to not think I was fat, even though I am. I'm curvy and i thought that was sexy, but apparently it's not okay. I'm sitting here crying right now and i've been doing that all day. It's not my fault that I don't have a metabolism. I eat 1200(or fewer) calories a day, only healthy food, and I work out every day, but lo and behold I'm still a fatass! And everyone else i know is an anorexic bitch who eats whatever she wants.


If you don't believe that I'm fat- take a look at this pic: (yes i know the clothes are form-fitting- that's so you can see my figure better)

http://i113.photobucket.com/albums/n210/LovelyBoylan/howfat.jpg


please don't say anything like "Oh you're so fat hunny you just need to exercise and eat right!" BECAUSE I ALREADY DO BOTH OF THOSE THINGS! GOOD LORD!


So i'd really like some advice on how to feel better about what this girl did to me.


thanks.

all you can do is eat healthy, and excercise exercise exercise! maybe you could talk to a doctor about helping you with a diet plan if you are worried about your health though, and ask them why its hard for you to loose weight. Trust me this world is so messed up and you arent fat, you just arent skinny, which ALOT of people arent, and its OKAYY because at least you are healthy. dont obsess about it seriously, because that would make you like all the other insecure girls in this world. Rise above it and look at things from a way different perspective. Charish your flaws and look what makes you beautiful! I know it might be hard to do right now because you are wrapped into being thinner, but you really need to tell yourself to stop worrying about that, and just worry about being healthy!

btw- the skinny girls that eat whatever they want, will blow up when they get older. This is because there diet habits are totally wacked, and when their matabolism slows down (which happens in the 20s) then they will BLOW! so dont be jelious, seriouly!

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(Rating: 5) i exercise a lot more than most people, and i'm the biggest health freak in the world. why must you assume that i already don't do both of those things? :'(

thank you for your consideration and time though.
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