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Yesterday I went to a funeral for a friend that recentley died (june 16, 07) Its so unreal, I cannot believe that it had happened.
Our whole school was basicly at his funeral, or thinking of him and his family.
It was so unexpected and random, why him?
I'm having sucha hard time grasping the fact that he's gone, and I could cry and cry,
I wasnt even that CLOSE to him, like some others, and I seem to be showing so much more emotions about it.
What do I do? Have any of you ever lost any friends?
he was only 16. (link)
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earlier this year the same thing happened in my community...he didn't even go to my school but everyone knew him and he was everyones friend...I have never seen so many people at a funeral before and I have never seen a town so affected...I didn't know him that well but I was completely torn to pieces...he was 16 and killed by a fellow classmate who was drunk in a car accident...I found that the easiest way to get over the loss was to talk about it...as odd as it sounds...talking about it with friends and family and getting all of the feelings that I had out helped relieve all of the pain that I was feeling...I thought about how happy he was now because he was in a much better place and how wonderful his life here was and how many people he affected and what he did for all of us...it's a hard concept to deal with but talking about it and letting everything out definitely helps the pain to ease away faster
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