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I know the theory is that if you have sex without birth control and he cums in you, you're pregnant.


But does this really happen ALL the time?
Can you have sex without getting pregnant?

Even if it IS a small chance, I just wanna know.
And dont tell me "dont have sex", I dont plan on it, I'm just wondering.


I'm sick of people preaching about sex on here.

haha! its not true that if you have sex without birth control you'll be pregnant for sure. It is highly possible, specially since sperm can live inside you for like 5 days.... but there is still a very small chance that you might not get pregnant. By telling you that you'll be pregnant for sure, is just a way to scare you so that you wont have sex whatsoever...
and as for preaching about sex ...people who say "don't have sex" are just full of it! you know they do it! and love it! hey, its a great way of exercise and relief! just have to use protection, and you're set to go! =)

hope this helped =)

VB

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(Rating: 5) THANKS.
Youre the only advice I actually liked. :)


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