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long story short me and my best guy friend felt each other up the day after his girlfriend broke up with him. he was cheating on her with me but nobody knew it. i told one of my friends that we felt each other up because she had been teasing me about not getting any, but thats not why i felt up the guy, i felt him up because i liked him alot and he was finally single. ok so i told my friend because normally she's a down to earth person who can keep a good secret. my guy friend really didn't want anyone to find out because he was still in love with his ex and wanted to get back with her. now for some reason three months later this b***ch decides to tell all of our friends, including the guy's ex that I SAID we made out and that he cheated. first of all, we never made out, i never said that, i don't lie, and he did cheat on his girlfriend but absolutely nobody knows that except me and him. so everyone thinks im a liar because when they asked the guy about us making out he denies it because we didn't do it, therefor making me look like a liar because "i said we made out". the guy was PISSED at me for telling people because he believed this girl who said i said all that b.s. well after 2 months of this drama, the guy finally realized im right and apologized to me and now we're better friends than before. meanwhile this girl and his ex keep telling more and more people that im a liar, im not a liar, she's the F'n liar. i've walked in on them twice talking about me. im about ready to punch this lying rumor spreading bitch but she has 3times the muscle i have (im about 105lbs, she's about 150 pure muscle) and she's about 5 inches taller than me, and could deffinately kick my ass. im not friends with her or his ex anymore because of this yet i still see them all the time because my 2 other bff's didnt want to get involved in the drama, even though they were on my side, so they're still friends with them. i don't know what to do about this. part of me is just saying "fuck it, i got my guy back" and the other part is still furious with her because she just keeps continuing this bull shit drama. help me deal with this girl. this drama started in February!!! (link)
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Frankly, I think you should forget it. You helped a guy cheat on his girlfriend, and when he was on the rebound you felt each other up. That is so disgusting and immoral.
You say he's your best friend? A best friend would never, ever, help the other best friend cheat on his/her girl/boyfriend.
I think you deserve all this trouble. You got yourself into this by helping a guy cheat on his girlfriend, and in my books, that makes you no worse than the person who is cheating. Get yourself out of this trouble, you got yourself into it. I am not surprised all your friends are talking about you. You need to get your priorities right.
You say that you wanted my advice and not my opinion. As advice is a FORM of opinion, I think that my answr is perfectly acceptable. As I said in my answer, "you should forget it." Make your own way through this because you don't desreve help from others.
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you missed the point of my question, its not about the guy and its not about his ex, it's about the third girl who is spreading lies and i'm not asking questions on here to have judgement against me i just want answers to my questions, after all it is called advicenators not opinionators
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