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ok, so, my name is vanessa! i' a real fun crazy gal =) I'm 19 years old, and about to start my second year of college! i love to challenge myself, to be with my friends, help them out to the max that i can.. mainly reson why am here.. duh lol i love you help people =) and can simply be a great listener. I've been through a lot in my life already... i guess that can be both good and bad. But that means i have some experience about a little bit of everything!
like I said, am in college, am in love with this amazing guy whom i've been with for over a year and a half, am bi, have been in love, have had my heart broken, have been places, study, work, and well, am crazy =) hahaha! in a good way ;-)
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ok my big brother has this friend right
his friend comes to the house at times
he comes into my room when my brother isnt paying atention
he lays on the bed when im there
and he starts talkin about my body parts
like that i have big tits and stuff
and then he starts feeling on my lips
and then he starts touching me were i dont like to be touched
i dont want to tell my brother because then his friend will tell everyone that im a snitch
then when i use to go out wit my brothers friends best friend he use to ask for a kiss and i use to say no
now that we broke up he wants one and more
what should i do?

sweetheart....
Please, please please please tell someone! because this boy is basically sexually harrassing you! If you don't put an end to this he'll keep doing it! If anything, your brother is going to defend you!
Or at the very least he should... No matter if this guy is his friend, he can't be doing this to you! If its not something that you want, it difitely shouldn't be something that you should do, or have done to. Stand up for yourself hun. Don't let him touch you again. Tell someone what he's doing asap! Or things could really get worse...

very much concerned

VB

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