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My whole life I've been told and thought I'm stupid. Because I'm not school-book smart. I don't get good grades in the "smart subjects" like science, math and so on. I am so sick of believing this. I'm a different type of smart. I know I can make something of myself.
I am especially good at 3 things; public speaking & reaching out to people, languages (I know 4 different languages and intend on learning several more) and I sympathize, more than anything. People always turn to me because of that, I long to help. More than anything.
I've researched at least a hundred different professions in my attempt to find a major that will equip me with the right tools to help save the innocent from the corrupt and ultimatley change the world. I need a profession that will make me come alive. I have a picture of myself speaking infront of thousands of people, touching their hearts, or working at a homless shelter, somehow helping those who have been used, or anything of that kind. But in BIG levels, it wouldn't mean anything to me as a doctor or anything like that. It's not the kind of thing that would make me come alive, it wouldn't matter to me. I don't want to help one person at a time, I want to help thousands.. at once. I want to do something that would end homelessness and stimulate world peace!
I am compassionate and am able to provide stability in people's lives when they are shaken up. I am 16 years old, female, and more than anything.. I want to do something with my life.
No one believes in me, because I am not suited for the typical "good jobs" I will never have the grades to become a Lawyer, Doctor, Journalist or any of the sort.
Help me, what can I become? And how do I get there?
Thank you so much! And please, don't read this and think "what a dreamer, everyone thinks they'll save the world.. this one doesn't even have good enough grades.. she doesn't even know how to spell" Please, I have enough people thinking that way, if you can't help me, fine. But I'm begging you, don't think like that.
I'm reminded of something my psychology teacher told me in my first psychology class... He said there are many different classifications of intelligence. For example, what you learn in school could be refered to as academic intelligence. There is also something called emotional intelligence... which I can tell you excel at. What I'm trying to tell you is that you ARE intelligent; you're just not giving yourself enough credit. So before you do anything... Stop listening to other people when they put you down and start believing in yourself.
Another thing that I want to share with you... I have a "save the world" complex. This is what I've learned... You can't change the whole world overnight. However... You can start by touching one life at a time. And even if you are never able to reach thousands of people remember that those you do touch... Is still a great accomplishment; whether it is recognized by anyone in your lifetime or not. Realize that the world changes... one person at a time. And remember that often, when you connect with one person at a time... You can make a lasting impression on that person's life.
Possible careers... There are so many possibilities and the sky is the limit. You could get envolved with numerous organizations... The Peace Corp. Enviromental Organizations, Non-profit organizations, even religious institutions... You could be a guidance counselor, teacher, pastor, nurse, social worker... Ever think about majoring in Human Services? That's something I would look into if I were you. (It doesn't take stellar grades either, just ask my roomate. :P) You could even start your own organization... My advice: use the information highway to your advantage to seek out possible careers. You also might want to look into taking aptitude test; maybe that could help you figure out what career would fit you best. And until you start college... Volunteer. This will count toward your future work experience... And you can make an impact on the lives of others NOW.
(Rating: 5) Wow thank you! This was one of the answers I got that brought tears to my eyes.. I can't believe you said I have emotional intelligence.. that's the first time anyone has EVER used that word to describe me. Thank you, so much, thank you! :)i loved how you gave me both encouragment AND profession suggestions. You answered this question on so many levels you deserve more than a five!