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There are days I wish I never meet her, and I wish I never help her from her issues.
But for some reason I was lead to this path to meet her and help her, but why!?
I am in love with my best friend that I know for 8 years. And I am a woman who found out that I am bisexual. I had past relationships with men but they never work out and I never got over her. It’s hard when I try to deny my feeling of her when she is a touchy close person to me. She leans on me and teases too. I know friends do that but she can go too far on being close. She is still very close to me after I told her ho w I felt about her. She was shocked about it and she told me she is fine with it and will still be my friend no matter how I feel in my heart. She doesn’t feel the same way about me and she not ready for a relationship and she isn’t sure what gender she likes her self. I ask her why that is and she said she doesn’t feel any towards to men.
When I try to get over her I just can’t! I cry because I can’t get over her. What should I do?
I am moving to Hawaii with my family and my plan was to never talk to her no more so I can get over her. But she is my best friend and I don’t want to break her heart. What should I do if I see her with someone elus? I won’t handle it well I know it I just wish I can find out what to do.
You have to tell her how you feel. There was some chick I met that was in college.. we were kinda close, and i was STRONGLY attracted to her, but never told her about my orientation, and never told her how I seriously felt about it. She moved back home after school...we still keep up with each other, but I really regret not telling her. So my advice to u is... TELL HER! Its going to be hard but you have to tell her everything you feel. Maybe her teasing you..isnt just a game to her..maybe shes doing it for a reason! Sometimes you have to put some things aside and just go for it... you only live life once!
(Rating: 5) I told her how i felt, but not what u read. telling her that i want to get over her and not talk to her no more becuz of it. will make her feel bad about herself. i first want to find out who i am before i get out my emotions. thanx for your advice.