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I started dating this guy a little over two weeks ago and it's been pretty hot and heavy. He's really awesome and I like him a lot. He's leaving tomorrow to go work in California for 2 months to make money. I've known about this since I met him, so it's not a big deal. Well, not until today.

His family had a little party today and my family was invited. Well, one of his friends was there hanging with us. He was really awkward and detached and I felt like I was at some random person's party imposing on them and their friends. There was like a 5 minute period where he actually treated me like his girlfriend and otherwise it was like I was just another one of his friends.

Again, he's leaving for 2 months. When I left the party all he did was give me this awkward sideways hug that isn't even intimate enough for FRIENDS. It wasn't even a real goodbye. I was really shocked about how he acted. He was so different and it pissed me off and hurt a little bit that I was just...there.

It's not like I wanted us to sit there making out in front of everyone, but some affection would've been nice. We're really close normally. We've done a lot together in such a short period of time and last night he told me LOVED me. That's not how you treat someone you love, that's for sure.

I sent him a message on MySpace telling him by and to have fun and I'm intending to leave it like that and let him make a move to call me if he wants to. I feel like a big baby and like I'm overreacting, but it just seemed so rude and just...awful. I don't know how to feel.

Am I overreacting? Is letting him make the next move a good idea? What should I do? Any advice would be great.

well your definately right. thats not how someone treats you if they love you. im guessing theres a little comunication problems in this relation. its not like your bf can guess what your feeling. you need to tell him and maybe even make the mooves yorself. it sound like your bf is busy going places so hes probabally preoccupied with what he needs to do. as for the party he needed that time with his friends. your his girl so he probabally planned on calling and messaging you alot over the time he was gone. that little goodbye hug he gave you wasnt all that special i agree with you but he might be hurting deep down.some people just hurt in different ways. some do long embracing with kisses. but some like to be tough and stick it and have a little contact before they break it all down.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for your input. Very honest. The thing, though, is that we never had communication problems before. Maybe it's just a big misunderstanding. Well, at least I hope so.
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