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Last night a guy that I just started talking to a few days ago asked me out. I said yes because we reall clicked when we started talking. But now I'm having second thoughts. I barely know him, and I usually don't go out with people I barely know! I'm sure if we took the timt to get to know each other first before he asked me out then I wouldn't have a problem with dating him, but I don't know how to explain it.. it's just like I hardly know him and I'm his girlfriend! Should I break up with him or keep going out with him and get to know him along the way?
Please tell me what you honestly think.
Thank you!!
As bad as this problem sounds, it's not that hard to fix. It's evident that you two really seem to like each other, but the question is how long will this realationship last. Ask yourself this question: Is me moving my fiendship with this person worth losing because I wanted to move it up to the next level.If I was in your shoes, I would simply tell him that you want to go out with him, just not yet. Deffinatly get to know the guy better before going out again. Some people like finding things out about each other as they go along through the relationship, Me personally, I like to know the person very well, or become very good friends with them before advancinng on in the huge scheme of the relationship. Hope this helps.:)

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I travel the world all the time, so I'm a very well rounded individual when it comes to giving and receiving advice. I'm currently writing a book, but my other hobbies include photography, acting, singing, giving advice, traveling, and movie critiquing(?spelling?) I have many siblings so I understand what sibling rivalry is like. I am also an abuse victim, so I also know what that is like. On one of my traveling escapades I was stung by the second most venomous scorpion in the southern half of Africa, I almost died, but thank God I didn't!

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