My name is Lyndsey and I'm 17 years old. I live in Lexington, South Carolina. I pride myself on being mature for my age with a good head on my shoulders, but I find I can be snippy when I hear something that just hits a nerve. I have a lot of strong opinions and I have no problem arguing them. I'm a very open-minded person and very tolerant of most things.
Immaturity is a big pet peeve of mine, as is self-centered, narrow-minded, and ignorant people. I can be cruel when it comes to these things, but sometimes certain people need to be told their faults. I know mine and I have no problem being confronted with them. If someone has a problem with me, online or in person, I'd rather they tell me and we can resolve the issue in a mature fashion. I won't tell you want to WANT to hear, just what you NEED to hear.
On a less serious note, I'm a laid back person and I enjoy shopping, the internet, and my favorite TV shows (Queer as Folk, The L Word, Friends, American Idol, Will & Grace, House). I don't have a large group of friends, but the ones I have are close and I love them to death. I generally enjoy life, minus the whole school deal. I'm a junior in high school and I can't wait to move on to college. I am an honors student and I hope to go to the University of South Carolina and then eventually into the medical field, possibly psychology.
If you have any questions or want advice, I'm here for ya, babes.
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13/f well, im having quite a difficult time with this, but i have been going out with this guy for 6 months. well he is really nice and all. Am i making a big deal about a little thing? or am i not? tell me the truth, but his really really good friend messages me over myspace saying that my boyfriend wants a hug, and why didnt you give him a hug? and that stuff. im just too shy! i know how you guys say just do it. but im too shy for that. im scared he wont see me trying to hug him and accidently walk away. :\ am i just coming up with the worst case senerios? or what i am lost. (link)
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Awww, this is just about the cutest thing I've ever read on Advicenators.
It's very strange, even at your age, that you've been dating for 6 months and you haven't even hugged yet. If his friend is telling you that, then I'm pretty sure that means your boyfriend told him you won't hug him. Which in turn means that he WANTS you to hug him.
I understand about being shy, and I don't know why HE won't make the first move to break the ice, but sometimes the easiest way to overcome a fear is to just do it. Face the fear and after that, the hugs will just come naturally. Next is kissing. ;)
Don't think about worst case scenarios. Just time it right (like when you first see him or when you're saying bye) and get it over with. You'll feel so much better once you've done it.
Good luck!
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thank you soooo much, very honest. :D i love it when people are honest about things like this. thanks soo much. definetly helped. :D
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