HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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My good friend and I were both expecting babies at the same time. Her baby was due in June and mine in September. Her doctor recommended that she get her labor induced because her baby was getting too big. So she got her labor induced and I kept calling the hospital room and no one ever answered, then I called her grandmother's house and I talked to her brother-in-law and he said she had the baby but he ( the baby) didn't make it. I have no idea what to do now. I want to talk to her but I know she going through something that I don't even want to imagaine, and she's the type that wants to be alone. I haven't talked to her at all yet, it just happened today. The baby was 39 weeks today so she was expecting to leave the hospital with a new child not empty handed. We have been so excited the whole time because we were both expecting boys and now I don't if her seeing me still pregnant would cause her more pain. I need advice!!! Should I go see her? And what do I say to her?? (link)
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yeah go see her and bring flowers and tell her that its ok and not to be sad and that when shes better that you two gotta chill somewhere and mention a good place or thing to do.And if she brings up her child tell her that shell get pregnant again and itlll be fine.DONT mention your baby AT ALL.
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That's what I did and it turned out to be okay. I haven't mention my baby at all. Thanks
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