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Q: Do you think that people choose to be gay?

or does it just happen?

I think that it isn`t a choice, and you can`t control it. I just want to see other peoples opinions.

There are two sides to evrey coin, and multiple answers for this question. I believe that some people choose to be gay, and I believe that some people are just born gay. Science is getting more, and more advanced as we continue to move forward in time. When studying the brains of gay men, they found out that most, if not all, of them had an excess of femail hormones in their brains. Another thing to think about is thoes people born with both sets of genitles. Doctors have to preform a surgery immediatly to decide the sex of the child. But, what if you choose the wrong gender for the child, and the child ends up becoming gay. OR, what if a boy was abused by his mother when he was growing up, so now that he is older, he feels more secure with men. Are you catching my drift here? There are thousands of different situations. The thing to remember is not to be judgmental in any situation that you find yourself in, be it AIDS, drugatics, dragqueens, the homless, alcholoics, or anyone else. I hope that this gave you a clear picture on what I thought about your question. C yah.:)

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