HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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ok im 19 and i have been with my man for like, a year and a half. the guy hasn't had sex in almost 2 years and i am still a virgin. he knows and respects that. But recently he has become sexually frustrated b/c we live together and he says it feels like we are already married with out any of ther perks ... meaning sex. im scared and i want to sleep with him i really do, but im afraid of the pain. he told me there are only two options for this situation. 1: I allow him to go and strictly have sex with another woman, just to get rid of the frustration (but he said he doesnt want that cuz he knows it will hurt me) or 2: for me to get over my fear and go through with it.
well, it all boils down to im afraid of both options, and well, i don't face fears very well. what should i do? Any kind of advice is welcome please help me out. (link)
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ok look,your gonna get screwed one day so its now or never.If you reaaaly trust this guy and love him to death then go ahead man.Its now or never if you dont hes gonna cheat on you and wont even tell you he did!!!you dont want your WHOLE relationship to ruin because of your cowardice right??its not gonna kill you,you wont turn handicapped if you do it,itll just hurt a litlle for a while then its over!
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Rating: 5
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you were very up front, thank you. I think tonight will be the night if he isn't too tired after he gets off work. Thanks
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