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Hi My name is Tara (taaaar-ahh) im 15 years old. Ill be 16 in July. Im from South Carolina. I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters.I love cheerleading,track&feild, skiing and dancing! I love my 4 best friends Tatz,Rachel,&Haley My boyfriend ALEX is amazing i love him more than anything in the world. Im full British. I love making people laugh :D Im skinny and i love it. Abercrombie&Fitch is my closet. My Cell Phone,Ipod,DDR,Lip-Gloss,and Chicken Wings are all amazing ahah. I like giving out advice and I will be HONEST about it so dont get mad about anything. Usually im nice though. No! I wont give out my screename or my myspace. Dont ask thanks. Well thats me in a nutshell :)

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i started babysitting this nine year old girl every wednsday and friday from four to eleven about three month ago. she goes to bed at eight thirty but her older brother gets home around nine thirty or ten from work but i stay until his parents get home so they can pay me. he's 27. he started hitting on me the first wednsday i started babysitting. then about two weeks into it, the fourth time i babysat, i was washing dishes. he came up behind me, put his arms around my waist and started kissing my neck while he was putting his hands up my shirt. he said that it was time for me to stop 'teasing' him. i don't think i was teasing him, i dont dress revealingly or anything and i usually have something on my clothes by the time he gets home.
But anyway, i told him we shouldn't do anything, but he is really cute and it did feel good, but i didn't want to get caught by his parents. i didnt want them to fire me. well we didn't hae sex but he did rub me through my jeans and he pressed his penis into my back. but the next week he came home early and we did have sex and we have been keepingit a secret since then and now i want to stop because it makes me feel guilty. my bff said i shouldn't beaccuse he took advantage of me because he's the adult and he told me that he would tell his parents that i hit on him and tried to sleep with him if ii stopped. i don't know what to do i want to keep babysitting carly because shes kind of attached to me, but i dont want to be pressured when her brothre comes home.pleae help me.

Okay i hope you realize that this is considered rape, seeing that you are not an adult and he is. I would stop doing stuff with him, you are there to watch the nine your old not have sex. Their could be serious issues if the parents find out and if they find out why wouldnt they tell your parents. You need to explain to him why you should stop! Good luck

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(Rating: 5) I have explained to him why and that i didn't want to do anything with him anymore, but i really dont want to lose my job and it would be weird with him there all the time.
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