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hey!
ok, so, my name is vanessa! i' a real fun crazy gal =) I'm 19 years old, and about to start my second year of college! i love to challenge myself, to be with my friends, help them out to the max that i can.. mainly reson why am here.. duh lol i love you help people =) and can simply be a great listener. I've been through a lot in my life already... i guess that can be both good and bad. But that means i have some experience about a little bit of everything!
like I said, am in college, am in love with this amazing guy whom i've been with for over a year and a half, am bi, have been in love, have had my heart broken, have been places, study, work, and well, am crazy =) hahaha! in a good way ;-)
so, anyway, ask away anything thats on your mind =) no matter how crazy or whatnot, i'll ceratintly be here to try my best to help =)

advice

Ok well when you're sad they say you should like tell someone and stuff but when i tell my best friends it seems liek it doens't matter much to them or they don't really feel any sympathy or they're not good at like cheering up.

And I can't jsut write all my feelings on this site and stuff you know, what can i do?

I feel so down and not even my best friends know how I'm feeling. And every part of my house is occupied so i can't even try to phone the kids help line thingy that I've always wondered what it's like.

Is there a site where you write all your feelings and people write stuff for you? I dunno I just feel so weak! I always need my spirit to be up and people to cheer me up. I'm sick of it!

My best advise would be to get a journal. Pour your heart into it... go for walks... listen to music while you do it... feel the wind in your face, playing with your hair...
Thats what i used to do. And it worked wonders for me. I don't know if it will be the same with you. As for the phone line, use your cell phone... go outside while you make the call if you have no privacy inside your home. And the same goes for if you don't have a cell, and have a portable phone... hope this helps a bit =)

Just remember, at least one person close to you is more than willing to hear you out =) regardless of where and when =)

VB

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