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hey!
ok, so, my name is vanessa! i' a real fun crazy gal =) I'm 19 years old, and about to start my second year of college! i love to challenge myself, to be with my friends, help them out to the max that i can.. mainly reson why am here.. duh lol i love you help people =) and can simply be a great listener. I've been through a lot in my life already... i guess that can be both good and bad. But that means i have some experience about a little bit of everything!
like I said, am in college, am in love with this amazing guy whom i've been with for over a year and a half, am bi, have been in love, have had my heart broken, have been places, study, work, and well, am crazy =) hahaha! in a good way ;-)
so, anyway, ask away anything thats on your mind =) no matter how crazy or whatnot, i'll ceratintly be here to try my best to help =)

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let me start out by saying im a very good student. i have A's in every subject. well last night i was up till 2 A.M doing my homework, and i forgot to do this one science worksheet. today in class, i asked my friend, lets call her Julie, for her worksheet so i can copy it. she gave it to me with no problem. bad move, i know. well i was doing it and the teacher caught me, she just took the paper and said i will talk to you guys later. so later, she called me and julie down to the classroom and asked what happened. i told my teacher that i was over julie's house for a long time and i didnt have time do to my homework so julie felt bad and gave it to me. julie said that i took the paper without asking her, and that is such a frickin lie! she GAVE me the paper, I swear to God on my life she did. now she told my other friend that she's not gonna talk to me anymore, and my friend told me thats what julie said. me and julie are so close. we've been friends since last year but it feels like weve been friends for a lifetime. wtf should i do? SOO sorry this is long/confusing. thank you so much, you have no idea how much it means to me.

i'm really sorry to say this, but your friends doesn't sound like that great of a friend.... if anything, all she seemed to be trying to do is cover herself, try not to get herself in trouble... and then telling your other friends what you say are lies... and not talking to you anymore?? thats just way to much... does she think you did it to get her in trouble or something??? i say try talking to her... make her talk and listen to you.... try to find out why she is reacting or overreacting i would say, the way she is... and I guess take it from there...

good luck!
VB

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