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I hope my advice helps you. In the future i want to become a Psychiatrist. My answers might not always be 100% correct but i try my best. && i would help anyone i could possibly help before i would even think of helping myself.


My name is Amy and iam 14, But i am very wise for my age. Just because im 14 does not mean i can not give good advise. I am COMPLETLY honest and if i think your acting like an idiot im going to say it whether you want her hear it or not. i dont care what people think about me, i have been though to much to. I dont beleive in lying to friends or people who need help && i ALWAYS speak my mind.


I have suffered through Depression, stress, and i keep all my feeling a secret so know one will find out or know im not stong or brave. I am always willing to help someone who feels the same. I've have/had mental breakdowns, suicidal moments, family problem, friend problem, & boy friend problems. im pretty sure that i am bipolar and ADD or ADHD, but i am afriad to tell me parents because i know they will not believe me. I am also all my friends, both guys and girls- and for ages 9-50, personal Psychiatrist so i know it all. I don't like stupid Drama and i am for the most part used to it, but I that how my life is. I LOVE reading about mental illnesses, i know its kind of odd- but thats me. && i love getting to look up and learn about something NEW!


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wow this is the closest thing i've ever written to a journal haha sry its mad long..please help

Ok to begin with I am 17/m and there is a freshman girl I have liked since arouund christmas and um basically i cant tell if she likes me or not..at first i thought she did so i told my friends until one dumbass friend went and told her and since then she hasnt said anything on the subject and im too shy to ask her and the only place i see her is in drama class or right before school ends if she passes by my locker to go to her bus..

i have been making fun of her in class since the beginning of this year (2007) cause..i dunno im kinda scared i guess haha i've tried to talk to her before and she will usually just give me a look and say "hi" and i'll say "whats up" and she dosnt respond ..and sometimes she just ignores me..im thinking maybe she's a little mad cause i make fun of her almost every day. she says she doesnt care but i dunno..girls say they dont care for a lot of things :P

she's kind of shy in class but sometimes when i pass her in the hallways she'll be yelling her ass off and she has 231 friends on myspace (none are bands i checked) and after school she's always on her cellphone..and she plays 3 sports and also she's REALLY smart..like seriously she got all a's on her midterm, has a 101 average in our drama class, and she's like in all honors classes..insane

girls are so confusing haha
so i dunno..i guess my question is what is she thinking..does she like me? because i know that i can talk to her if i know she likes me but i dont want to embarass myself because ive embarassed myself more than once for this girl..i am seriously head over heels for this girl

thanks for reading

Well their is no real way of knowing whats on her mind because i am not her. Girls dont all think the same, some guys actully think that. lol.

sorry im honest, i know it hurts but someone has to say it.

Well she could have liked you in febuary, But guess what your friend messed up, and so did you. You dont make fun of a girl if you like her, you should relaly stop it because she will have no respect for you and she wont like you. No one likes to be made fun of, and she probabaly thinks your just a jerk for making fun of her. How is she supposed to get the hint you like her if your acting like a jerk? Its pretty darn hard.
Be nice to her and SLOWLY go back to flirting with her and talking to her. And after a couple weeks of maybe proving that your not really a jerk ask her how she feels and tell her why you were acting like that. Write a note and leave it in her locker if you are to embarassed to say it to her face, but saying it to her face is actully a better idea and it shows that you have balls. Its better to be try and be regected then to spend your life wishing you had tried and always having a crush on her. At least you would know she has no intrest and you can move on with your life, i know thats not always easy but things get better with time. I promise. If you need anymore help feel free to ask. Hope this helped.
-Amy

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(Rating: 4) thanks for your input man it's negative but i appreciate it
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