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Xenolan
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a couple months ago i was at one of my best friend's place, right? and i used to go out with her cousin. and he lives with her. now i haven't gone out with him since dec. and i still kinda liked him alot . we ended up making out, and he fingered me. [[actually fingered then made out, i always do this stuff backwards, cause that was my first kiss]] and he asked me if i wanted to do anything and i said no, and he was respectful of that, but the next time i talked to him on AIM he called me stupid and a slut. and he took me off his top friends [[with Tom on his top friends, the stupid creator of myspace!]] and i'm over him, but did this make me a slut? and what should i think of this?
13[[almost 14, yay!]]/f (link)
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Okay, Neuronatas, if the girl allowing a guy to finger her is a slut, what is the guy?! You're no more a slut than he is. Don't even take that. A slut is someone who has sex with a lot of guys. You mention only this one. He may accuse you of being 'easy' and he may have a point, except that it was one single time, right? But you're not a slut.
Neuronatas has a point in that almost fourteen is pretty young to be going anywhere beyond first kiss. Fingering is pretty advanced for your age, so it might be better in the future if you were to deny any request for fingering until you're sure the guy you're with isn't the kind who will decide, after he's gotten out of you all he can, that he could look like a tough guy by ruining your reputation.
So he's a loser and you don't have time to listen to his silly opinions anyway. Just avoid him. What a waste of your first kiss, huh?
Sabine
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thank you for defending me, and i realize i'm a little young. he was sixteen soo yeah . but he was a loser, and im glad its over
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