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this from :friends dont do this to each other right?
the thing is that i have feeling for her. and when i told her that she said she was fine with it but not sure what gender she likes, but she doesnt feel the same way. but when she is a close person to ME (i dont see her do that to others but only me.) yes she is a close person but why will she do that to me? and scerw up my mind? she did that close sitting before i told her how i felt. we still hang out and tease each other like sisters. but i cant stop thinking of her being to me. she leans on me most of the time. so its hard to tell does she like me or is she a close touchy friend?
my guy friend does the closness to me too and he is Bi, i ask him why he was close lto me that day when he viist me. he said old feelings came back to him. because he used to have a crush on me. so when i think about that. i realized that jon was leaning and holding me like what Mandy did to me. so this is confusing.......
Yea, I know exactly how you feel here sweetie. See, I call myself straight but last summer I found that I had feelings for a close friend of mine who was a lesbian. It was weird for me because I had never liked a girl as more than a friend, before. She would always flirts with me too. It was so confusing that I finally just told her how I felt. Well, it turned out that she didnt feel the same, and once she realized that she had been sending me mixed signals, she stopped and it was clear that we were just friends. I still like her, but I respect that it isnt a mutual thing. However, your friend still does the flirting (or touchy stuff as you called it) even afer you asked her about it. She knows that she is sending you mixed signals, so... I would bet that she likes you as more than a frined, just isnt ready to admit it. Its hard for people who are struggling with thier sexual identities to admit that they might be "bi" or "lesbian/gay". I know it took me a while just to admit to liking a girl. But, I am straigh, I just figured out that I liked her personality so much and who she was as a perosn that I didnt care about her gender. It wasnt that I like girls, its that I like her! If that makes any sense! Anyway, point is, its can be hard. So, just be there for your friend and tell her that she is still confusing you. I am sure that she cares about you enough to at least not lead you on, so... make her away of how you are interpreting her actions, and she may quit or just admit to liking you. Either way, the key here is to be open with her and be there for her. Dont pressure her, but let her know that she cant keep giving you mixed signals. Ya know? I really hope it gets better for you. These issues are always difficult. I think we all struggle with it at some time or another. Good luck hun, and as always, im here if you need anything! *Smiles*
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thank you. i know what you mean about liking her personality and ect. it the same with me. i never get intersed of girls but i like her personality. thanx again.
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