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ok well im 15/f and my ex bf is 16. WE broke up before my birthday which was april 11th. He called me to wish me a happy birthday and ever since then we have been talking. He asked me what would i say if i we went back out. I told him i would think about it. Well one of his best friends said that lately he has been doing drugs for the past month and stuff. I asked him about it and he said that he does do drugs now and he sells it now too. Well thats just not cool to me but i love him alot i mean hes the one who broke up with me i didnt want to lose him. I dont know wat to do i want to go back out with him but im not sure if thats a good idea?!? i need help thinking of the pros and cons of me going out with him if hes going to do this. Im not sure why he does this i mean he has money he doenst need any im the one that doesnt have hardly any money ever! i just want him to stop doing that shit but he told me that he wasnt and he told me that i shouldnt care because i do that shit too but i dont i told him i dont and i never will. I need HELp! please help me anyone i would like to hear alot of people's opinions and ideas. thanks :]
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You sound like me. I have never been in a situation like this, however it sounds like something i would get caught in. The thing is drug sellers/users are dangerous and bad people. Drugs affected the body and damage it. They act different and are ruining their lives and hurting people around them. Its going to be hard to make a decsion because you are in love. Love does damage and is a very powerful feeling. I beileve you are in love, only you can get someone better than that. Drug users are no good and bad people. Please don't get caught up in it. You will only be hurting yourself. It may be hard to move on, but it's the best thing for yourself. What hes doing is illegal and illegal is not good obviously.
Ask your self these questions:
Do you really love him?
Is he worth your time and love?
Do you think he's going to treat you right?
What will other people think of you?
What if he gets caught? Then what should I do?
Are you sure hes right for you?
Is there anyone else?
There are so many questions and it will be hard to answer them. Ask yourself questions answer them and judge your answer on a scale of 1-10, 10 being the best answer and 1 being a terriable answer. Ask other people about your answers and have them rate them and agree or disagree with your ratings. I would be glad to, just send me something in my inbox and i will deffinatly get back to you. In my opnion this guy is NOT right for you. And i would hate to see you go with him and maybe ruin your life. If you got into the whole drug world. You would be like everyone else on the planet. We have more followers and need more leaders. Be one. You'll stand out. You may not be able to talk him out of the drug scene. Drugs are a powerful and harmful thing he may be hooked for life. It's sad to see the young go through this. I would love to talk more about this with you. I'm very interested and excited with this. My screename is Flychicxo101 if you have one please IM me i have away messages up all the time but IM me anyways im there. Or send me something in my inbox and i will get back to you.
I Hope I Helped :)
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thanks you really opened my eyes and i think that i just need to go on with my life. Its very hard for me because i do love him but he never really treated me right and i dont need that right now i just lost one of my best friends and my grandma so i have been through alot lately. i wish i could help him but im not sure if i can. i mean hes only 16 and hes doing this shit. He has a very good life and i wish i had it like he does. i dont want to get sucked in to his bad choices because i might end up getting hooked on it too. that would be terrible. so thanks for your help and ill probably will be tlakign to you more about this later. thanks again
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