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Xenolan
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For a LONG time, This guy likes me, and yesturday I just started liking him. He was talking to me and he's like flirting with me and stuff. I just cant stop thinking about this and him. He helped me with my homework, laughed, talked. But then I found out later that he was dating someone by one of my friends. My heart was crushed, and she's like OH YOUR JEALOUS. But really I didnt want to show it but I kind of am. I like him but then again I wonder why am I liking him? Hes not cute, but he has a great personality. The guy I like and the girl (who he is going to prom with) are going to prom today, and I cant go because I'm a sophmore and hes a junior. Which is even weirder is one of my other friends told me that the guy I like doesnt even want to go to prom with that girl. HE wants to go with me. But yea so proms tonight and Im wishing I can go. But I cant so any ideas how I should feel better about this?
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Oh, dear. If you liked him and wanted him to invite you to prom, the time to say something would have been about February. Right now he may like you, but he's already obligated to this other girl who has probably bought a dress, is right now having her hair and nails done, may have hired a limo and had dinner reservations, etc. He can't dump her just because a cute new girl flirted with him. So that's just the way things go, dear. Next year you'll be able to go and have fun. Maybe you'll even be able to go as a couple who've been together for a year at that point. But it's just too late for him to change his mind about the other girl right now and you just can't expect otherwise. To feel better, find a friend or a few, and if your parents allow, have a girls' night and sleepover with movies (scary, romantic, whatever) or do something else to keep your mind off prom and your guy-interest.
Sabine
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Rating: 5
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thanks, he knew me before he new her.
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