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my (first) boyfriend of 2 days asked me out on a (first) date. i dont want him to "make a move" so should i::

1. tell him that i already had plans with my friends to go to the mall, but he can come and bring friends

2. tell him that my parents wont let me see a movie with him alone, so tell him that i need to bring friends.

3. other





((also, will there still be a chance either way that he'll make a move?))

cause i dont want to have to tell him that im not ready.


im so stressed. HELP!

Just calm down and realize that he's probably just as nervous as you are. If I were you I'd just go to the movies with him. Play by ear you know? I mean if he puts his arm around you, thats nothing its like a hug. and anything further just ask him nicely to stop. He'll listen.

or if you really are losing sleep over this, go on a double date.

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(Rating: 4) thanks. i just really feel akward telling him to stop.
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