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I have a boyfriend... of 4 months... and i just cheated on him with my ex..... i dont know what to do?
and I can not tell my boyfriend... pease... help!
F-- 15

Hey there!
I think that your boyfriend will find out sooner or later. But it would be way better if it came from you and it would be way easier if it was sooner. Becasue imagine if you told him after a few weeks then he'd get mad or imagine he heard it from someone else he'd still get mad since he trusted you and you hid from him the truth.

First of all, you need to ask yourself why did you cheat on him with your ex? You and your ex might still have feelings for each other. If thats the case then you need to sort it out and break up with your boyfriend. But be easy on him.

If you don't have feelings for your ex then when you tell your boyfriend make sure that he knows it was a mistake and you never intended on it to happen, you'd never want to hurt his feelings.

If you choose to not tell your boyfriend and hide it from him, then you can either break up with him (if you have feelings for your ex) or you can stay with him and hide from him the truth (but you might end up feeling guilty)

As i said before, if i were you i'd see where my feelings are nealing towards if its my ex then id break up with my boyfriend; if its my boyfriend then im gonna tell him about it and how it was a mistake! (I know this just sounded kind of confusing) I really encourage you on letting the whole truth come out! But once again its your choice and no one can make this decision for you!

Hope i helped! Tell me what you decide and tell me how it goes! Update me soon ok? Take care and if you need anything else ask me!!

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(Rating: 5) It wouldnt be that easy to tell him... because 10 minutes before it happend, me and my boyfriend were talking about how much he loved me and how i would never cheat on him and how we trust each other... and while talking to him about that I was talking to my ex plotting out what was going to happen.. him come over. And my boyfriend knows I still like my ex, but I told him I would never cheat on him and i wouldnt go back to my ex.... but just untill the other day, me and my ex didnt even talk... and now that we do, i know that he misses me and it hurts.. because I still have feelings for him. But I love my boyfriend and want to be with him forever... (my boyfriend is 19 so he knows what he is talking about) and my ex is almost 18... But the bad thing is.. I dont know if I feel bad. Yeah I hate keeping it from my bf, but it felt good to have that time with my ex. ahh.... help me.
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