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ok sorry if this is long...
so i'm 14/f and in 8th grade. and back when i was in sixth grade me and this guy jamie really liked each other. but we always pretended we didn't, but we both knew we liked each other. then, half way through sixth grade he moved to hong kong, like actually to live there. we talked online a little bit and we both admitted that we liked each other. then during 3rd quarter that year i started going out with this guy ben. well, school in hk wasn't working out for jamie, so he came back for 4th quarter. but i was still going out with ben then, so jamie stopped flirting with me. but i dumped ben before jamie went back to hong kong, and then we flirted. so anyway, during 7th grade i talked to jamie a little bit and we both play tennis, so he said that over the summer we should play tennis together. well i forgot about it, but over the summer i got a call from him about "taking me up on that tennis match". so we played tennis and then he asked me to go to a movie with him, then he went back to hong kong. so then this year, he came back here for a week for his friend's bar mitzvah. he kind of talked to me a little, but very, very little. i think he liked me over the summer (maybe) but he's coming back this summer and i want to know what i should expect. i am willing to have a long distance relationship with him, but what should i do about it? call him when he's in town? we go to the same country club, so i'll see him at tennis, but i really want to have a relationship with him. what should i do? thanks so much (link)
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WOW. a lot of moving back and forth. Thats really hard. I would say that if he is actually going to stay were you live for a while go ahead and go for it. You both like eachother but the whole moving thing has effected both of your emotions. I would say that he would still like you. Call him when he gets home and be like so i say we have a rematch. Then hopefully you'll be able to play some tennis - which like last time could lead to the movies and etc.
But yeah i would say as long as hes staying and not going back to Hong Kong, go for him. Things maybe a little weird at frist b/c time does change people and feelings. Moving can be pretty hard expecially for someone still kinda youngish
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Rating: 5
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k thanks i'll probably ask u more about it later, lol
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