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Q: First let me start off by saying i have been with my boyfriend since October 23rd 2005. I'm 15 yrs old , and he just turned 18. My parents let him move in the 3rd month we were together, so we have been living with each other for awhile. I cheated on him a couple of times when we first got together and everytime we get in arguments he brings it up. I'm really in love with him , when im not around him for one second i have this feeling of lonelyness. We fight all the time , he always says i start them but sometimes i dont. Ive been trying really hard not to start an argument but it doesnt seem like hes putting in any effort. He always calls me names even if we just get into a disagreement. And theres been a couple times hes hurt me physically. He's choked me a couple of times and pushed me down. I know deep down hes not really a bad guy but im scared hes going to really hurt me. He always leaves me when he gets mad and im the one that always has to call him to come back. Hes hurt me mentally to where sometimes i think im not all there. Im young and my mom and dad are really concerned , i shouldnt be going through this. I was wondering if anyone could give some advice on mabe to make this relationship better , because i really dont want to have to leave him. Theres alot more to my story but im not going to write anymore.
- kaylaa
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umm this guy is a jerk. and i know you're going to hate me for saying that but it's true. guys do NOT have to hit you if they're angry. you need to leave him. my mom's friend was in an abusive relationship and the guy sent her to the hospital and she was STILL in love with him. Thats not love its like slavery. So yeah you should leave him and you are welcome to give me a bad rating, but you asked for advice not a piece of sugarcoated candy. im telling it like it is, end of story.
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i dont see anyones advice as bad actually yours was pretty good . thanx for answering my question :]
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Gender: Female Member Since: August 3, 2006 Answers: 187 Last Update: June 27, 2009 Visitors: 15409
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