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ive been going out with my boyfriend for not even a month but ive liked him for a really long time we were at the movies the other day and i gave him a hand job..it was my first time and now i feel really slutty and i regret it..is this normal?

Also we said that we werent going to tell ne one and that it was going to be "our little secret" but i really wanna tell my best friend..do u think i should?
1] You shouldn't feel slutty. You did something that felt right at the time, and if you regret it a little, that's fine -- but don't beat yourself up about it.

2] If you still regret it, then stop doing it. 'Nuff said.

3] If you want to tell your friend, then you should. It's your business and your decision whether you tell her.

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