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Q: okay ive been with this guy for a year and half- we're from 2 different religions and my mom would like kill me and i know we have no future if we got married or anything in the future. but recently i met this guy who is sooooooooo hot and he wants me and i realy wanna kiss him and stuff like that...and the reason for that is cus the guy i am with doesnt statisfy me sexually i mean he is not attractive and doesnt turn me on.
im really confused i just wanna cheat but i dont know if i should. is it that wrong to satisfy your feelings somewhere else?
Okay, so let me get this straight. You're with a guy that you have absolutely no future with -- you're from different religions, your parents don't like him, you don't find him attractive, and he doesn't satisfy you sexually. So why the heck are you with him in the first place?

If you don't want to be with this guy, then break up with him; no matter what, he doesn't deserve to be with someone who doesn't appreciate him and want to be with him.

If you break up with him, then you can get with Guy #2 and keep your self-respect -- AND you don't get labeled as a "Cheater."

Either way, don't cheat.

thanx allot...the problem is that i love my boyfriend but ur advice is great thank you

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Hey there. I'm Holly, and I'm 19. I've been through a lot in my life -- literally, if you can name it, I've probably dealt with it or know someone who has. Unfortunately, it sucks, but fortunately, it puts me in a great position to help people that need advice. Feel free to ask me anything about anything. =]

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