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sometimes i feel like my bf is using me...but i dont know. i really like him so much and i dont want to let him go. what i feel for him is really special. i care about him more than ive ever cared about any guy in my life. we have been "bf/gf" for about a month and a half and its been a little rocky because of the fact that he doesnt really show affection except when he wants to get physical. i dont really mind - but it's just i wish he would do sweet stuff for me or say sweet things that came from his heart, not a book of pick up lines or sweet-talking me to death. i really want to make things work between us but i just dont really know what to do...am i asking for too much of him? i mean all guys are oblivious but i really like this one... and i dont want to be his personal makeout buddy. i want to be the one girl he loves because i love him and i dont want to let him go or anything...**PLEASE dont tell me to break up with him or to find someone better that i deserve...** (link)
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Sounds like all you're looking for is a movie romance... So yes, you are asking too much of him.
And no, Not all guys are oblivious. Don't be so ignorant.
It's perfection of the happiness that makes you feel so small... You wish he was perfect, he's not. And if you do love him, you'd accept his flaws... And in your eyes, this is one of them.
That, or he probably just wants sex out of you. And that's not love.
In which the only option you have left is to break up with him. If you don't then the problems that you suffer from are just problems that YOU make.
Again, it's not his fault.
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