Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
E-mail: princess_in_pink723@hotmail.com Gender: Female Location: Canada Age: 16 MSN: princess_in_pink723@hotmail.com Member Since: September 9, 2006 Answers: 465 Last Update: February 20, 2010 Visitors: 28664
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15/f
well to start off I've never had a real true bf but like 2 in elementry school but that was stupid stuff. anyways now i'm a freshmen in high school and never havin a boyfriend is really starting to suck. and therefore no bf has resulted in never being kissed. and all my friends except for one (my bff) has been kissed, made out with a guy or done other stuff. and i don't wanna go around having sex but i just wanna kiss a guy and its really startig to make me feel like crap when i see people kiss i just think ughhh i want a kiss. but i want my first to be spcail not some random guy at a party. but i'm starting to worry that when i do get a bf and he kisses me he'll be like wtf she can't kiss? and ughh i know i should be proud that i'm not going out makeing out i have morals but i just feel soo stupid and loser-ish for never being kissed or anything and i don't know what to do. (link)
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Hey!
We all worry about that, so don't worry. Also, you're not a loser, and you should be proud that you have awesome morals. And yeah a lot of people have been kissed by the time they're 15, but I'm 15 too and I havnt been kissed, so it's okay, we're not alone. I think that a lot of people make a big deal out of a first kiss, because they've had one, but it's not really that much more special than the second or third one from what my friends have said.
I'm sure we arent bad kissers, for your first kiss, just let him take control and then as you get the hang of it let it go.
It sucks not to have a boyfriend, I know, but the right one will come along soon, so don't stress about it. Your morals and stuff is way more important.
Lastly, I always just tell myself, that if I have to change something just to have a boyfriend hanging off my hip in highschool when I could be out having fun with my friends having a great time while I still can, then is change worth it? I don't think so, if a guy whose decent comes along, thats great, but if theres no one until later in life, I'm cool with that too. So don't worry, it'll be fine, and you're not alone, so don't fret! You're awesome and you know it, so when someone realizes, then everything will all work out. I hope I helped, love ya,
Angie91
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