Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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Hey guys I really need help about this!!!Well theres this guy(who turns to be my best friend)that im MADLY in love with.But he has a gf(...)so I figured the best thing to do is to move on on and let go...but I dont know how!!!plz HELP..i really need to shut my feelings for him because it hurts to watch him being in love with some1 else while im sitting here waiting on him.so please tell me what to do so i can 4get about him.i really have to.i cant stop thinking about him and it makes me cry.i cry almost every nights...please tell me what to do but,please dont tell me to do activities because theres not much to do where I live.just tell me what I should do toward him and stuff!
im waiting for your help.
thanx in advance
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Hey!
OMG I can't believe I almost missed this question! I had already gone through all of the pages and I was bored so I was liek hey I'll look around one more time and I foudn your question. I have all the moving on tips in the book, so if you need some help, I think I've gotcha covered.
K, there are a lot of steps to moving on, and every situation is different so every person has a different step that is easier than another.
So the first step is to get involved. I know you said theres nothing to do where you live. But thats kinda a key step so if you can find anything thats better than nothing. Volunteer, walk your neighbours dogs, babysit the kid across the street. If theres absolutely nothing, then make your own thing, grab some friends and make a bowling team or set up a mom and daughter night and go with a bunch of your friends and their moms to a movie every month. Find something that you can do thats unusual and keeps your mind off of him.
The second one is fun, It's "me time" you need to find something that you can do on your own that makes you smile. Some people go out for lunch by themselves(but the reverse is if you see a couple out to dinner you might feel upset) some people take bubble bath or light candles and watch a movie.
The next one is expressing yourself. You need to find something that you can do to make yourself feel better, whether thats drawing, or painting or writing or playing basketball.
Then you need to set goals for yourself. set ten goals and start to tick them off, one can be clean your room on a regular basis or something but one can be stop obsessing about _____.
I know, you're thinking this advice sucks, I wanna know how to stop liking him. But thats one thing that all of this stuff will help with. If you're too busy planning the bowling night, are you thinking about him?
K the next one is finding friends. Usually activities help with this but it sounds like it wont work where you are. SO you need to find someone in everyone of your classes and focus on them. Maybe they're that hot guy you never really thought about dating, so flirt, maybe its the quiet girl in the corner that doesnt really have alot of friends in that class. try and meet someone new in every class. No don't ditch your friends, but reach out to others. And if you find a hot guy, well enough said.
As far as the fading of the crush, it may fade right away, or it may take months you never know, one day though it will fade and you'll find someone else. So basically, how do you stop from crying everynight? You focus on other things, and if you still have to cry everynight for a bit, well that may be the case. Each crush fades differently. When you're around him you'll hurt, but you just have to think about all of those great ways you're bettering yourself in life by setting those goals and spending time reaching out to others.
This is a hard situation, and I know how you're feeling it sucks. But I can help you out okay, so if you need anything else, or if those don't work, thats okay, I can give you some more, those are just a few ideas, and they may not work but something will and you'll find it. Good luck, and I hope I helped. Lots of love,
Angie91
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thank youu.I hope it will work!i promise to write you if i need more advice
thzzz
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