Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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This guy has been going out with his girlfriend for a long time. I just moved to a different city a couple months ago,and i made a lot of friends, including him. he's like one of my best friends, nad i hug him like everyday. i'm not the one who'd mess around with another girl's boyfriend, ecspecially when she's one of my friends. that's against my morals. but recently, his hands have been wandering around where i feel is inappropriate since he has a girlfriend. he'll try to touch my butt, or he'll hug me a little too close(i can feel some things that i shouldn't if you know what i mean...). i tell him to stop or will push him away, but he keeps doing it. he even asked me out when he's still going out with his girlfriend! should i tell his girlfriend that she needs to watch him a little more closely? i don't want her to think that i'm trying to break them up, because she's knows that we're real close friends, and i don't want to seem jealous. (link)
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Hey!
I think that you need to sit him down one day and tell him that you like being his friend but you have morals and you dont think that he should eb flirting with you so much when hes dating her. Tell him that absolutely nothing will ever happen between the two of you while he's dating her. Tell him the exact things that you dont like him doing like touching your butt, and tell him that the more he does it, the more he loses you and if he wants you to still be his friend then he needs to smarten up and see that he can't have two girls.
Don't tell the girlfriend, theres no point in that, it'll just make her nervous and feel like she has to watch him 24/7 and that if she doesnt shes going to lose him. If he continues to act the way he does around you, then stop letting him. If he puts his hand on your butt slap him in the face. Then when that scene gets created that obviously will if you start slapping him in the face, word will get out to her. If he hugs you too closely push him off. Just do what you can, pretend hes that sick perverted kid that you dont want to get too close to.
This is a tough situation because hes your friend, but sometimes guys wander, and if he's wandering already, the relationship probably doesnt have much longer, so hopefully this wont happen for too long. Good luck, andI hoep I helped love ya,
Angie91
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