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I'm not here to tell you what to think or do, but to give you as much honest, accurate information as possible. If I don't know an answer to a specific question, I'll research it before replying. I won't sugarcoat things; my job is to tell it like it is.

I've got a particular interest in sexual health and sexuality. I know a lot about fertility and pregnancy - and firsthand now, as I've just had twins. I'm also an accredited sexual health worker.

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hey im a 16 year old female and i have sex weekly. me and my boyfriend do it unprotected usually but he never busts in me.
i got my period march 26 and we had sex in the shower. for the past week ive been having cramps in my stomach and its kinda starting to scare me that i could be pregnant. also my urine smells really weird i cant really discribe the smell, but its unusual. i really hope im not pregnant because i dont know what i'll do. my body looks normal but i feel like im peeing an extra lot. but maybe im just thinking that because i think im pregnant? i always get scared when my period is coming up cuz thats just a natural reaction for me. i hope nothins wrong.. but why do you think my urine smells? please helpp me (link)
Your urine changing odour is, in fact, a sign of pregnancy. It can also be a sign of an infection of some sort.

When is your period due? Your only real option is to wait and see if it comes - and if not, take a pregnancy test.

Pulling out is not an effective method of birth control. Why put yourself through the worry every month of wondering if your period will come? If you used birth control, your boyfriend would also not need to worry about pulling out. And as pulling out doesn't really work, condoms and a second form of protection are the safest idea.

Your body would not show signs of pregnancy this early, even if you were pregnant. For example, you wouldn't get a 'bump' until you were about four months pregnant.

Increased peeing is also a sign of pregnancy - but again, it could also be a symptom of a bladder infection. It might be smart to get checked out by your doctor, as if you've got on infection you want to get it treated sooner rather than later.

One last thing to consider - has yourself or your boyfriend had sexual contact with anyone else in the past? You may be at risk of passing on or contracting a disease or infection if so.

I hope everything works out for you.


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