HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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so this guy i like who is 18 told me about a month ago that the only thing he really wanted was sex. he didnt want a relationship. he wanted sex and that's it. He said we should hang out and get to "know each other" because we dont know each other that well. He said that honestly he isn't sure he'll fall for me or not, but the number one thing is sex. He didnt specifically say it. but THATS all ive noticed he talks about. So i talked to him & told him that he i dont respect him since obviously he doesnt respect me. So now it's become a little bit of a fight and he understands what i mean. So now he doesnt want to have anything to do with me. I still like him though.
its difficult.
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wooow...well ill tell u what happened hear exactly...u made yourself cheaper then dust.He knew you liked him and he took advantage of that.You were all over him and so hes like hey,she likes me shell do anything i want so why not?And since you gave him that chance he used you for sex and now he might not even consider being with you,this is how some guys think they think that if she did it with me then she probably did it before and will do it again so i cant trust her.You shouldnt give it up to any guy like that!Damn!where are the modest girls at these days?!The only thing you can do now is totalllllly forget about him because if you go back to trying to get to him youll end up losing more dignity then you already did and he might even try to have sex with you AGAIN!Forget about this guy and never try this again.What you did was aim for his sexual side insteada his emotional side(which is the right side for making a guy like you)
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Very Good advice. Although we never had sex. I wasnt the one who brought up sex he did. & how do i get to the emotional side? Thanx.
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