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HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.


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so theres this kid. he's pretty much a slut. he's dated like every girl ive ever met. but there's a reason for that; he's really adorable/funny/witty/charming. for the past couple years ive thought he was a really despicable person but within the past three months we've been hanging out like nonstop. he picks me up and calls me every day. hes my friend now, but i like him. a lot. he flirts constantly and asks me out like every other day. when i say no he pretends to get really sad and he'll start laughing and trying to hug me and he'll be like "whyyyy?" i WANT to say yes but ive kept myself from doing it. he makes me so happy and sometimes all i want to do is kiss him. i mean, how bad of an idea is this? should i just go for it? keep in mind that this kid gets a new girlfriend like every month. but he is so amazing. i don't know how much longer i can keep saying no. (link)
well you have to choices...since you like him so much and really cant take it then go for him BUT.....youll have to handle it if he were to break up with you a month after.Hes done it to other girls what makes you think he wont with you.Plus,hes probably done it with all them girls and has STD's and is willing to pass it on to you!OR you can say no and realize that this is only just a stage in your life thatl pass and youll get over him soo enough and later on youll be glad you didnt get with him.I,myself would never agree to go for a guy like that,i wouldnt care how sweet he is,a guy like him is afraid of commitment and wont stick to one girls he likes VARIETY,and thats not the type of guy you should have in a relationship.The choice is yours to make but youll have to handle the consenquences.


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you pretty much confirmed everything i was thinking. but i would never have sex with him, so. yeah. thank you very much :)




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