Hey!
If you're wondering about my user-name, it's actually the name of an awesome book, by the same author who wrote "Does my head look big in this?"
But the title seemed to apply to me, and I actually have a list of the 10 things I hate most about me, it's up on my Myspace if you're curious.
I've been giving advice to my friends and family for as long as I can remember, anything from telling my Dad to stop smoking when I was 3 (He finally stopped when I was 5) to helping out friends whose parents were splitting up.
I've found I have a talent for it, and I was recently awarded the title of "Empath" by one of my closer friends. Apparently this was because of my abilty to understand people and the way they think, and why they do things etc.
When I graduate I plan on getting a degree in pyschology at The University of Western Australia, and possibly moving to either England or the USA to work as a shrink.
Aside from giving advice, I'm into any kind of Rock/Alternative/Metal/Punk music, along with a bit of Hip Hop and R&B. I play acoustic guitar, dance, sing (very badly) and I'm into any form of art.
I'm the middle child in my family, with a younger and older brother who are 10 years apart, the elder being 17 and the younger 7.
So yeah, even though I'm new to this site, I have plenty of experience, so feel free to ask whatever, and I'll help you out to the best of my ability.
Website: My Myspace
E-mail: 10thingsihateaboutme@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Western Australia
Occupation: Student
Member Since: April 18, 2007
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Last Update: May 1, 2007
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My boyfriend is friends with this girl, and they seem like theyve become closer lately...it all seems innocent, because theyre "friends", for example she went to a hockey game and bought him a souvenier, and he calls her, etc.. This only worries me because I have a hard time trusting him & before he was friends with this girl, he used to like her. She also used to like him. It doesn't bother me if he is friends with her; but more the part that he used to be interested in her, and she used to be interested in him, does bother me. I know i can't tell him who his friends should be, and i've confronted him about "does he still has a thing for her" or whatever, and hes denied it, and she has moved on as well (apparently) but ... like i said i just can't bring myself to trust him because apparently he told his best friend, **who told me**, that he still "kind of likes her". meanwhile hes dating me. ugh. it disgusts me... like i said i wouldnt care if hes giving her attention as friends, but i do care because he used to like her/she used to like him. and it all is perfectly innocent "friendly" stuff, but idk it just bothers me.. what should i do about the whole thing? (link)
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My advice would be to trust him. My best friend is a guy, and we both used to have a 'thing' for each other. We never really acted on it, and both moved on. He apparently still has a 'thing' for me, but he still dates other girls.
But they never care, and neither do I. We both know that neither one of us would ever act on any non-platonic feelings towards each other, simply because we're so much happier just being friends.
Also, have a talk to her about it. Tell her that you feel intimidated (Even if you dont) and she'll probably understand.
If she doesn't, then she's a bitch and you should screw them all and start over with a guy who gives you his 100% percent attention.
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