heyy my name is megan.
im 16.
i have a boyfriend i love to death.
i absoulutly love giving advice.
i think i can safely say i am great at it.
if its about love friendships sex i can answer those very well because i have been through all of that kind of shit.
ask for advice anytime!
i promise i will try my bestest.
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OK! This is going to be pretty long. I'm a 16 female, and i've been dating this Guy, Logan, for a year and a half. Well, after one month of me and him dating this one Guy, William, kissed me. I of course told William NO, and stopped him, but I had to tell Logan. So I did. And he was mad at me for awhile, but he was over it a month later. Me and Logan fell SOOOO much in love. He came to see me everyday after work, he always said I was beautiful, he was so protective of me, and he ignored his friends if he got the chance to see me. Best of all, he was my very first at sex, and he stayed with me, it didn't change him at all, he was always there for me. But, one day, my mom found out, and kinda went Kookoo, and told me I could never see him again. Well, after that we just sorta fell even more in love with each other. We spent every second trying to be with each other. And then my mom brought that William guy back. She told me if I didn't hold Williams hand than I couldn't call Logan. We went to Missouri on a trip, and she brought him with us, and made us sleep in the same room. And I was always telling William to leave me alone, and not to talk to me, but Logan was always yelling at me and telling me I was cheating on him. And one day, I just kinda snapped, and I felt like Logan would hate me soon because I couldn't prove that there was nothing going on. And then William started trying to comfort me, and he really did make me feel good. He promised to leave me alone, and just be my friend, which is all I wanted. But then, William kissed me again, and Logan found out because of my sister. And after 2 kisses, i'm sure it's hard to believe there is nothing going on. But, Logan broke up with me...So I did the unthinkable, I went out with William. William left for the marines a day later, and couldn't get anything from family or friends for 2 weeks. Logan asked me out the night William left, saying he made a mistake. I HAD to be with Logan. He's the only thing that makes me happy. But, if I dated Logan now, i'd be dating 2 guys at once, which is absolutely not my thing. So I said yes to Logan, and sent William a really harsh break up letter, but it didn't get to him very soon. But, then I figured everything would be ok. William off to the marines, me and Logan here together, everything could work out. I couldn't be accused anymore. And everything was going fine for like another 7 months, until a week ago. Logan said he can't forgive me for cheating on him. And I don't know what to say to get him back. He's the love of my life, and I know i've accidently hurt him, i've hurt him so bad because he thinks I lied all those times. I just want the man who loves me back. I don't want to be accused anymore. I don't want to fight. I want him to come see me everyday again. I want him to tease me, and smile. I want to make him happy, but I want me to be the one to make him happy, no one else. Please help, I love this man so much. (link)
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Aww im so sorry to hear that. Well relationships are all about trust and respect (and other stuff lol) he should of trusted you when u said you werent cheating. It doesnt make any sense really, he should believe you. It was williams fault really. You did everything you could to get william away. Don't be so hard on yourself. You didnt mean to hurt Logan. And technically you didnt really cheat on him. William wasnt respecting you and just stepped in when he was not wanted. You have to explain to Logan about how you never cheat on him and it was williams fault you didnt want him with you and HE kissed you, not like you wanted it (hopefully not). Explain how much you love him and he should trust you he has no reason not to. If he doesnt except it then im not sure what to tell you. Its hard losing someone you love especially if they dont trust you for no reason. I may be confusing right now. If you want anymore advice or need anymore help with this i will try my best so just send it in my inbox if so.
Sorry If It's Not What You Wanted
And I Hope I Helped
Good Luck Hun :)
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Thank you, you really did help. Unfortunately, as much as I explain it he says I can't prove it.
I can get this William guy to tell Logan, but Logan hates William so much that I think even if William were to back me up, Logan would just be even angrier I even contacted William.
He's had a rough life, Logan. I really was the best thing to ever happen to him.
And now I feel like i'm the worst. Simply because I hurt him on accident. I love this man. He needs to know that.
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