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So i am going to be my boyfreinds first kiss..
and i know its going ot happen, before you go there.
I've kissed before.. a few guys.. (boyfriends)
and he hasn't.
He is going to be 16.. well, pretty gosh darn soon.
&& he's pretty shy..
so im sure i'll make the first move..
((( we were talking about it, like kidding aroudn.. well, long story..but anywyas, i can assure you it's going to happen )))
my question is..
since i don't really make the first move..
ever. i hate it..
what should i do?

what kind of kiss?
wehre should i put my hands..
stuff like that.

:] please help!

haha, this is really cute! :] before this kiss happens, make sure you two are talking for a while to make it more comfortable. then you just sort of lean in slowly, and when you realize he's doing the same- close your eyes and kiss! then you won't feel like you're doing the moving 100%. maybe not use tongue right away, but just a longer intimate regular kiss. and when you break away if he liked it, i'm sure he will go back for more ;] no matter how shy he is. really, he's a guy. to start off with your hands, maybe just rest them in his hands or something and slowly move them up his arm till they're around his neck- if it's his first kiss then i'm sure his hands won't be roaming in other places, either. if you don't act nervous or unsure about it, it'll make him feel alot more at ease, too. good luck to the both of you!

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