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Yesterday, I went to the mall with my Mom. I found a really cute skirt, and a top. When I tried it on, my mom insisted that "they were too tight." This happens ALL the time when we go shopping. Every time I try something on, my mom says, "No, its too tight" or "I think you need a bigger size," when I really don't. Something could fit just fine, and she would still insist that it is too small.
So the other day, I started crying, because she never likes ANYTHING that I try on. Then she asked me what was wrong, and I said, "Apparently I'm fat!" And she goes, "Oh no, you're not fat. The clothes just run small."
Mind you, I am a pants size 0, and I weigh 88 pounds. When I was younger, I used to be kind of chubby. I don't know why my mom does this- I'm trying to decide if it's because I really do look fat, or if its because she thinks I look good and doesn't want me to wear tight/revealing clothes. I am very upset, and lately I've been feeling like I don't want to eat. I decided to give up candy, and I fear becoming anorexic. Yet my mom, (who is not thin) continues to encourage me to eat candy.
Should I say something the next time she does this? I am getting really pissed off, and I feel like shouting, "You're just jealous because I'm not fat like you!" at her.
Hey your not FAT dont say that bout urself. I used to say iw as fat all the time and it didnt get me anywhere i was anorexic for awhile but its not worth it believe me all you do is get sick and you could die from it. Even if you were fat who cares it shouldnt matter what you look like. Im sure your mom doesnt think your fat i think she doesnt want you to wear those kinds of clothes right now. Maybe shes not ready for you to grow up my mom was the same way with me and after awhile i realized i dont carwe what she thinks. So try no to care what she says and if she does it again talkto her bout it and tell her how it makes you feel. Maybe she doesnt kno wat shes sayin adn how it effects you. So let her kno its better than hurting yourself because your not fat at all and i think you need to gain weigh. How old r you?! well i hope i helped if you need anymore help please write me in my inbox or heres my sn xoxokatiebabiixo im me sometime if youhav a sn and ill help youthe best i can ok well hang in there and please let me kno if you neeed anymore help!
~katelyn~
(Rating: 5) Im 14 and thanks.