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Q: theres this one boy, eddie. We're best friends, and i'm in love with him(but he doesn't know). today, me, him, and two other friends were all together, and one of them asked him if he thought my other friend, kim, was hot. he kind of blushed, and he didnt really say yeah but he didnt deny it either. and then she was like, so you do? and he kinda said yeah.
but he kinda acts like he likes me. he sits next to me whenever he gets the chance, and he's really nice to me. when there are a whole group of us, me and him always end up walking behind the rest, talking to eachother.

does the fact that he thinks my friend is hot mean that he can't like me? does he sound like he might?

boy best friends are very complicated. There is a huge possibility that he does like you, and while a boy likes you he still has opinions on other girls OR he likes you when he's around, but okay.. lets put it this way... he wants his cake and to eat it to. EXAMPLE.. "Kim" is his cake. he wants to be able to have it but "U" are the eating it part.

Also... sometimes when you like someone it's easy to read more into their feelings because you want it to be there.

But like i said, there is a very thin/complicated lines between boy bestfriends and girls. They're your best friend, so its easy to fall in love with them, and the fact that they're a boy lets there be the sexual side into it. because think about it, if your best friend was a girl she'd be everythng you looked for in a guy BUT not attracted physically too.. thats why boy bestfriends are complicated.

hope i helped. i was in a VERY similiar situation.