Call MeSKY
i;m 16 and i live in New York, The reason i decided to give out advice because i have been through alot in my life,
-I grew up without a father,
-dealt with abuse up till recently,
-dealt with many mental issues,
-dealt with death in a close knit family,
-dealt with disease.
-Jerk Boyfriends
-Sex issues
-Step Sisters
I've been through a lot, but it only made me stronger. I know what it feels like to be down, to be lower than you've ever been before, Sometimes you just need someone, even if you don't know this person just to talk too. When friends aren't as supportive as they should be, and parents aren't there. Thats why I'm here. I'm not perfect with advice but i will tell you straight up and do my best to help. No matter how big or small a problem is. I will be as open as i possibly can, and maybe just maybe( No promises though) i will help. Just know that talking is a good way to solve any problem..
-Sky-
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Okay sorry this is so long....
ight....my name is sarah,im white and im 15...i date this boy named brandon,hes black and hes 17 and i just turned 15 in march and hes about to turn 18 in may...well we been dateing since march 24th-2007 and when we were on the phone he said babe are you ready to fuck me and i told him no because im still a virgin and we only been goin out for 2 weeks.He said i better set a date or its over.So i told him ill be ready friday.Well we just started talking and he was like babe i got somethin to tell you but i wanna say it to your face but I LOVE YOU!!so i said i love you too.WEll he always tells me well be together forever no matter what.Well all my friends tell me were rushing but i never felt this way about a guy befor in my life.I just dont no what to do because my plan was to brake up with him thursday because im not ready to fuck him yet.Hes everything i ever wanted in a guy.The only thing is he wont wait until im ready.and everytime he says i love you and he blows kisses in the phone and always calls me baby...well when ever i hear his say that stuff to me its like i cry all over again and i just dont no what to do with him...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I'm sorry but this guy is not the man of your dreams..
If he doesn't want to wait till your ready that means he doesn't respect you..
believe it or not Sex is a big thing and it changes a lot of things
I Know what im talking about to.
I dated a boy named Tomas for about 11 months and even after that i wasn't ready to do it.
SO he warned me that either i do it or its over.
I didnt do it because he didn't respect me enough,
Ot was one of the hardest decisions in my life.
but i thank god everyday that i didn't do it because your first time should be special.
Your 15 you have a long time to decide all these things.
Your young and hes 18 (almost)...Don't do it because he wants it because you haven't been together that long.
And when he gets it he may leave you as bad as that sounds.
You need to talk to him and if he still doesn't respect your decisions to wait than hes into worth it
Its not going to be easy but its the right thing to do and i think deep down you know that..
don't give in to him because he says the L word..
He may just be saying that to make you want to do it.,
BE STRONG,
Wait and See because he may seem like the man of your dreams but you don't want to do something you will regret.
-SKY-
I AM PROUD that your dumping him,,,
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