My name is Lyndsey and I'm 17 years old. I live in Lexington, South Carolina. I pride myself on being mature for my age with a good head on my shoulders, but I find I can be snippy when I hear something that just hits a nerve. I have a lot of strong opinions and I have no problem arguing them. I'm a very open-minded person and very tolerant of most things.
Immaturity is a big pet peeve of mine, as is self-centered, narrow-minded, and ignorant people. I can be cruel when it comes to these things, but sometimes certain people need to be told their faults. I know mine and I have no problem being confronted with them. If someone has a problem with me, online or in person, I'd rather they tell me and we can resolve the issue in a mature fashion. I won't tell you want to WANT to hear, just what you NEED to hear.
On a less serious note, I'm a laid back person and I enjoy shopping, the internet, and my favorite TV shows (Queer as Folk, The L Word, Friends, American Idol, Will & Grace, House). I don't have a large group of friends, but the ones I have are close and I love them to death. I generally enjoy life, minus the whole school deal. I'm a junior in high school and I can't wait to move on to college. I am an honors student and I hope to go to the University of South Carolina and then eventually into the medical field, possibly psychology.
If you have any questions or want advice, I'm here for ya, babes.
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I know a lot of people out here have problems and probably a lot worst than this. But I guess im in search for someone who maybe has been through this.. and knows exactly what Im feeling. I met this boy 2 years ago and we've been friends since and we became very close since summer and we've been hanging out alot and we pretty much became bestfriends. He got a girlfriend and didnt tell me about it til i confronted him about 2 weeks after and he admitted to having feelings for me and thats why he didnt tell me so i was honest and told him i liked him too. well nothing happened and he`s still with her and this was in the beginning of feb. and im still upset and cry over this.. i dont understand (link)
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This is a really tough, complicated situation...but we all go through it.
Perhaps he has feelings for both of you. If so, it's perfectly understandable why he hasn't broken up with his girlfriend. Maybe he's confused and doesn't know what to do about the situation.
Just talk to him about it and ask if he still has feelings for you and if he does, why is he still with someone else? Speak to him about how it makes you feel and hopefully you'll get it resolved.
Just a bit of advice for you though: if he tries to get involved with you (dating, kissing, anything) while he's still with this other girl, DON'T do it. Whether you know the girl or not, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't want your boyfriend straying from you like that with another girl. Don't let him lead her on either...and definitely don't let him lead you on, which is exactly what he's doing by telling you he likes you and then not doing anything about it or even talking about it.
Hope I helped.
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