Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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I fell in love this year. We were together for a while, but he wasn't happy so he broke up with me. It's been 3 months, and I'm still not over him. People are like "try to get to know other guys" That doesn't work. None are interested at all. I'm extremely upset. I keep myself occupied with track and such, and it's not even like I have many friends to turn to, because they all tell me the same thing, since none of them have been through this before. What should I do? Please don't give me something stupid, I'm really hurting here. (link)
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Hey!
Don't worry you're in great hands. I know all the tricks for moving on.
This is a tough time for you, and you need to start slowly and move up to likeing other guys. Not the other way. You dont start by riding a two wheeler, you start with a trike right? Start slowly and move up to that phase.
So heres what you have to do, you start by keeping yourself busy, which you are doing. Good job, but you need to find something new. I mean by all means continue with track, but you need to find something totallystrange and new that you have never ever tried before, this will be like a landmark in the moving on process. With every achievement, its a stepping stone.
Then spend more time with friends and family. Try to set up a family movie night with your parents and siblings. Try to set a night each week where everyone goes to the mall as a group (with your friends). These types of things will help you to keep your mid off of him, and it will also help you to have fun with your friends. As soon as you feel yourself feeling down tell yourself that this is time to be happy, and you can mop around when you get home.
write about it. Get a journal and try to write regularly. Talk about your feelings as well as what you did that day. Write about anything because it will help you to get your feelings out and make sense of how you are coping with this situation.
Set goals for yourself. Make sure you have about ten and write them down. Also, beside each goal write what you are going to do when you achieve it. Like say you plan to clean your room once a week for six weeks straight. Then when you achieve that goal you are going to take two of your friends out for dinner. Then when you do, follow through with it. Make them Realistic, goals with realistic rewards.
After you follow through with those things, then you can start to find new guys. But if you get through all of that and you dont feel like you're moving on, let me know and I'll give you a few more tips.
I hope I helpped, I know this is tough for you, but you'll get through it, and if you want more help, let me know. Love ya,
Angie91
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thank you so much for your time. i will try it :]
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