Call MeSKY
i;m 16 and i live in New York, The reason i decided to give out advice because i have been through alot in my life,
-I grew up without a father,
-dealt with abuse up till recently,
-dealt with many mental issues,
-dealt with death in a close knit family,
-dealt with disease.
-Jerk Boyfriends
-Sex issues
-Step Sisters
I've been through a lot, but it only made me stronger. I know what it feels like to be down, to be lower than you've ever been before, Sometimes you just need someone, even if you don't know this person just to talk too. When friends aren't as supportive as they should be, and parents aren't there. Thats why I'm here. I'm not perfect with advice but i will tell you straight up and do my best to help. No matter how big or small a problem is. I will be as open as i possibly can, and maybe just maybe( No promises though) i will help. Just know that talking is a good way to solve any problem..
-Sky-
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15/f. This isn't really new for me. But it has been bothering me for the longest time. I apologize if this is long. If a person were to look at me, from an "un-biased" point of view (towards me) they would say my life is pretty cool. I get good grades. My parents get me anything I want. My parents actually CARE. But...lately I've been feeling ...sad. For NO apparent reason it seems. One of the main reasons...perhaps, is a guy. He's just been playing with me...and backstabbing me...and then coming back to me and asking forgiveness. He's made me depressed, and made my emotions go BIZERK. Also, my parents put too much pressure on me. Over grades....friends.....etc. They basically control and expect TOO much from me. I can't deal with it anymore. At school...NOBODY wants to be friends with me. Just because I'm smart. NOBODY ever talks to me unless they need something. And I feel so used by the people I actually call (and am able to call) my "best friends." No guy ever liked/likes me. I hate it. I feel worthless. It's a young age. But I can't help it. I started cutting myself not too long ago...and now I'm just confused. It seems like I have a good life...but it's all too much for me to handle. :/ How can I overcome this suicidal and worthless feeling? (link)
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Trust me i know how you feel.
I went through the cutting phase.
The guy thing i understand too, not to long ago i was in your shoes, but i saw that the way this guy made me feel was not good at all, as bad as it hurt me i cut things off.
My parents are crazy too about grades, and to tell you the truth it gets completely crazy sometimes you know how they want you to strive for the A and not settle for less.
Also i use to have those friends who were a bunch of backstabbing (well i think you know the word i was going to use) we will say Jerks.
Now to the whole suicidal thing, again i was in your shoes a couple of months ago, but what kept me from doing it was, think of it this way THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE WORSE OFF, and if that doesn't help think of someone the good things you have in life, example;Siblings, your parents, friends, and other family. How would they feel if you did something. You sound they a bright kid soo im not worried about you going something dumb.
Every person goes through this phase and trust me its a phase, you need to realize your not worthless,May i suggest doing something for yourself something you like to do and only you.
Your 15 enjoy life don't get caught up in the drama , your smart and thats whats going to get you somewhere in life. As for boys i know your probably heard this before, but the right one will come. You will have to get through a couple of jerks eventually though a good one will come.
Just remember:
-Cutting and physical Harm is not a good answer and i know how you feel but it'll get better without that.
-Boys aren't the most important thing and the fact that your smart intimidates them.
-Parents are going to put pressure on you, but just try not to think about it.
- do something to make YOU feel better.
-BE PROUD that your smart
I'm here to help if you need....
-Sky-
P.S Dancing to music helps me sometimes....
get your mind off things....
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