im scared to be alone. my bestfriend is the most important person in the world to me. and my family is like whoaa
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ok im 14/f and im not exactly sure what to do because my two best friends hate eachother.
ok well they used to be friends last year but something happened along the way. (Mel) has been really upset at (Bob) for a long time. since the begining of 8th grade something happened between them that she refuses to tell me about. she says she is not ready to tell me. and the problem is whenever im around one of them and the other comes they argue or cuss eachother out. i mean he doesnt even know why mel is mad at him but he is still mean because of it. and well i really like bob. i mean really. last nite i was on A-I-M and he signed on. mel was at my house and she and him started arguing online!! i told him i had to go. and mel said it was because id rather spend time with her than with him which isnt at all true. so then i told him it wasnt true and i left. of course mel got mad. i dont want to chose between them. i want them to get along like they used to. it would be great. because i really like him and think i have a chance with him but mel isnt supportive. i think this has gotton blown out of proportion and i really want for them to get along. i mean he really hurts her with his nasty comments and only stops because i tell him to. what can i do to make them be cool with eachother. i hate drama and especially when im caught in the middle of it. thanx in advance.
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well im gonna be honest theirs really nothing you can do to make them like eachother, but what you need to tell them is, if they are both your friends then they will do this for you, tell mel that if she was your friend, she may not be supportive of you guys goin out, but she should be happy because your her friend and thats what friends do for eachother. tell bob that even if she says something to him dosnt mean he has to say something back because he looks just as immature as she does and if he hates her the last thing hes gonna want is to look like her:) so comment me back and tell me whats up.
hope this helped
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